![]() ![]() Then I went out and bought, like, a gallon of lube and a strap-on that suited me. I was determined to go into the situation really prepared. “I researched everything there was to know about anal.He, on the other hand, had been preparing for about two weeks, as he had not been penetrated by anyone in more than two years.” -Taylor, 55 He brought the dildo over as a surprise to me, so I had no prep time mentally. He was more concerned with the idea of being thrust into, so I just made sure to move slowly and let him control the pace until he was comfortable for me to set the pace.” -Sophie, 25 The dildo we started off with was very slim, and we’d used wider plugs before, so the size wasn’t an issue. “Lots of lube and douching beforehand was key, as well as taking our time.13 Toys You Need to Properly Peg Your Partner.I was curious what it would be like to be the one doing the penetration and he was curious about what it would feel like." -Diane, 38 “It was an idea we'd both mentioned at different times, so I think it was pretty mutual.I think this particular night, I asked if he wanted to try it and he said yes, especially since we’d just bought the harness.” -Catherine, 35 He doesn’t have the sexual hangups that some guys seem to have about it, which I appreciate. We have both worn anal plugs during intercourse, and he’s not squeamish about butt play. He told me he wanted to ‘get a bit crazy,’ and then he suggested I penetrate him with a dildo.” -Bea, 22 Once, I had asked him what he wanted to do. The second partner had to be prompted a little on my part.” -Anna, 28 He’d done it before, loved it, and once we got serious, he asked me to give it a try. “It was my partner’s idea the first time.It was a fantasy of mine to see if I could do it, if I was any good at it (I am), and if I would enjoy it (I did).” “It was his idea, as I told him that I had never done it before.It was probably more my idea than his, but I think it was also an intriguing idea to flip our current couple dynamic on its head.” -Sophie, 25 As he got more comfortable with the sensations and the idea of things, we decided to give pegging a try. “We had experimented with anal play on me, and he was curious about whether it would do anything for him as well.Oh and lube- lots of lube.” -Diane, 38Īnd whose idea was it-yours or theirs? What made you want to try it? ![]() Then, I wore a harness, which I found to be really comfortable, and paired it with a dildo. When he was ready, we moved on to using a small butt plug to continue getting him warmed up. ![]() Gloves are great because they make clean-up easy and they protect my partner from my nails. “It’s important for the person being penetrated to be warmed up, so we started with me using my fingers.We used a slim silicone dildo, and of course, lots of water-based lube.” -Catherine, 35 “I used a harness, which I love because the size range is really forgiving.“Just a really smooth, plain dildo.” -Bea, 22.Both strap-ons were softer silicone models, but one had a vibe that also pleasured the wearer.” -Anna, 28 “I used a strap-on with both partners I’ve pegged and enough lube to drown a horse.“I used a traditional strap-on harness with a dildo.” -Taylor, 55.We also found that it was important to have a sturdy harness as well, because it made thrusting and moving a lot easier and less awkward.” -Sophie, 25 We tried prostate toys and butt plugs before, but he wasn’t sure about the longer length being comfortable. “We started off with using a slim dildo to test out the sensation and figure out if it was something that he would like to keep on doing.7 Pegging Foreplay Tips You Need to Know.“I’ve pegged my long-term partner-my husband of 11 years.” -Diane*, 38.We’re poly, and sometimes we play with others.” -Catherine*, 35 I’d also be open to trying it with casual relationships. It was with a serious partner-we’d been dating for six months.” -Bea*, 22 I wouldn’t be averse to doing it casually, but both of my partners waited until we were very close to bring it up out of shyness or embarrassment.” -Anna*, 28 “Only with serious partners who were very into it already.“Yes, with my serious partner.” -Taylor, 55.“I have tried pegging with a serious partner after we had been together for about three years.” -Sophie, 25.Have you tried pegging with a serious partner or in a casual relationship (or both)? Notice how they pretty much had…nothing bad to say about it. ![]() Don’t believe me? Take it from these six women who dish on their personal pegging experience. Even more so, for those who wear the strap-on, it can be incredibly hot playing around with power dynamics. ![]()
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
AuthorWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview. ArchivesCategories |